It’s Just Not True!

Listen to why you should dismiss the myth that you can be too relaxed when you’re speaking. And explore the sister belief that speaking tension is a good thing.

Join in and use the rapid change tool EFT along with me to quickly release these unhelpful beliefs. It’s all about getting more confident in your speaking!

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For speaking nerves, some people suggest that you picture your audience in their underwear. That’s a bad idea if you want to be an effective speaker.

When you try to get confidence by visualizing your listeners undressed, you create an uneven power dynamic. Now you’re feeling more powerful as the dressed one.

Here’s why that’s bad news: People defend against an assertion of power. Nobody wants to feel one-down. And they will pick up on that vibe from you. They’re subconsciously guarded now and can’t openly receive what you have to say.

To communicate effectively, choose a different way to be relaxed when you speak so that you can connect to your listeners without a power struggle. EFT is the fastest way I know of to get rid of that tension so it doesn’t come back. For EFT coaching to get comfortable speaking — just contact me.

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How To Actually Enjoy Networking

Listen in to hear the key to being so comfortable that you can actually enjoy yourself at networking and social events. Even the ones you’re dead certain are going to be boring.

Here are the secrets on Confident Speaking Radio:

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